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Penises love a woman’s softness. Why then, do so many women feel they need to stimulate a man so hard?

A woman is not a wanking machine, nor is she a vacuum cleaner. Yet so many women act like this in bed with a man.

If he really wants the intensity of a man from his partner, then tell him to explore his bisexual side! Seriously - bisexual men tell me that the pleasure of being with a man is the intensity and hardness of the encounter.

The problem is that so many men have never even had their penises touched tenderly and softly.

Because men tend to be pretty intense when masturbating, they think that’s the only way to pleasure their penis, and so expect the same from their female partner. But once a man has experienced the sensation of tender stimulation of his penis (given with true erotic desire and connection), well, he won’t turn back. It’s a wonderful sensation.

Which is not to say that there aren’t times when you won’t want to make love with vigour and enthusiasm. Most of the time however, be a woman! Hold and caress and stroke your man’s penis with intense softness and passionate tenderness. He’ll love it!

(And never again will you get RSI of the forearm, aching neck or sore cheeks…)

To find out more about loving a man as a woman, come along to my Luscious Woman workshop. Or book in for a private session.